A lot of guys don't wanna look bad whatever happens.
A lot of guys are too serious and coming of too "tryhard".
But why do they try so hard when it doesn't help them to get the girls easier?
I guess it's an ego thing.. one cool girl on the pick up forums once said:"Less ego - more dick!"
Stop being a tryhard.. stop trying to look cool.. when you can play on your weakness and self amusement to create attraction and comfort with the girl!!
If you can share some of your not so shiny moments with her and admit your mistakes.. it's comming of way stronger than trying to be the cool guy all the time!!
Im talking shit about myself all the time and laughing with the girls about it for a second -> then I escalate even harder!!
If you come out as a guy who doesn't take himself too serious.. you allow the girl to be herself and open up without trying to fake anything.. or put on a facade.
All this leads to "not caring".. ->
Don't care about what the girl thinks of you.. you can't control that anyway.. you can only try lead her and escalate and see what happens!
Don't care about what the other people around the club thinks about you.. it doesn't mean anything to you anyways.. in the end of the night you are the one pulling the hot girls.. so who cares?
Don't care about what your wingman thinks of you.. ofc feedback is cool, but don't try to impress him with some cool shit, do it for your own victory and not for some kind of showoff bullshit reason!!
In the end of the day you are doing all this pickup to improve your succes with women.. and keep that goal in mind and nothing else.. fuck the ego completely and let the game begin!
I know I look like shit at the moment.. but I started caring less and less about it. This leads to the girls care less about it too!!
The girl is a reflection of you.. whatever you thinks she thinks! If you are having fun and leading her.. She will have fun too and follow you around!!
But never care what she thinks.. EVER.. this can destroy the good vibe and escalating process instantly.
It's the same like you don't need to ask for her approval to do anything.. just do it.. and ask for forgiveness and laugh about it if things go bad!!
"Not caring" is one of the biggest things about game.. and if you learn to do it the right way.. and for the right reasons.. you will experience better results, but also enjoy your nightouts way more!!
You will cut the shit and let the real self shine!!
So stop caring - start doing!!
Cya in the field player!!
Maggiez is out of here!!
